I know God won’t give me anything I can’t handle, I just wish he didn’t trust me so much.
Maaaaaan, I know some people who are getting it in the gut right now. Loved ones in the hospital. Physical pain. Grief. What can you do when you are stuck in the muck of stuff you can’t control? Three words:
Ask. For. Help.
I remember several years ago arriving at National Airport, at one of my lowest, most exhausted points, and just crying as I waited for my luggage. I was under so much stress at the time. A friend picked me up and handed me this little plaque with the Mother Teresa quote above. Ever since then, it sits on my desk every single day.
No matter if you believe in a higher power or not, you need your people. You need your personal board of directors. This same friend that met me at the airport, periodically, calls me “Madam Chairman” and asks for advice or simply calls to share the fact that all is well. We also have that “bruja” magical connection where one of us is thinking of the other, and the other knows.
Do you have a personal board of directors?
Knowing what to do comes from knowing who you are. Sometimes, we need our circles, our tribes, to reflect the best parts of ourselves, to hold up hope when we have none, and to carry concern over worry. The latter is a nuance I recently relished from the empress of inspiration, Danielle LaPorte.
Do you have people whom you can call to share “here’s what” and they do not need fifteen minutes of context because they know your life?
Even if you don’t talk all of the time, there’s a heart connection.
My board has never met all together. I receive and give one-on-one consults and referrals. We rarely have long conversations unless we have planned time together. Many of them do not live where I live.
Somehow, we stay connected. Through phone, text, Skype, handwritten letter (try one quickly before they become obsolete) and when circumstance strike, they are live and in person, over coffee, tea, wine, water, tears or luggage.
Love your people. Find your people. Ask for help.
You are amazing.
Love your husband.
Thank YOU for reading and being a huge support! Love you.